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What Do I Say Now?
Responding to the Slogans of Critics

Rick Wade

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Religious Pluralism
Heaven help the person who has the sheer audacity to think that someone elseís religious views are wrong. In fact, pluralists often accuse Christians of being imperious, overbearing and arrogant because they think they are right, and other spiritual paths/religions are wrong. However, what rarely seems to occur to any one is that these very same pluralists think all non-pluralist beliefs are wrong. In other words they are just as dogmatic as the people they rail against.

It is tragically true that few of those who believe 'all spiritual beliefs are valid paths to God" seem to have made an in depth study of various religions to see if their claims are based on fact, or fairy dust. This simply because many, if not most, people seem to believe that religion is a matter of what you believe, and 'faith' has nothing to do with reality. Whether we realize it or not, we literally make dozens of decisions every day, based on evidence, not feelings. In fact, we would find ourselves in deep trouble on quite a regular basis, if important decisions were based on how we emotionally relate to something, instead of collecting known facts/weighing all the evidence.


"True for You, But Not For Me"
Since the church began, objections have been raised to the faith. They have varied according to the beliefs and mindset of the day. To be effective in taking a stand for the truth, Christians have had to know the current questions and objections. Maybe youíve heard some of the more common objections today such as "Jesus never claimed to be God," or, "What gives you the right to say other peopleís morals are wrong?" Or how about, "That might be true for you, but itís not true for me." Sometimes these objections are well thought out, but often they sound more like slogans, catch-phrases the non-believer has heard but to which he or she probably hasnít given much thought.

If objections such as these have brought an abrupt end to any of your conversations because you werenít sure how to respond, a book published last year might be just what you need. The title is "True For You, But Not For Me": Deflating the Slogans That Leave Christians Speechless, and it was written by Paul Copan, an associate with Ravi Zacharias International Ministries. Copanís goal in this book is to provide responses for Christians who find themselves stumped by the objections of critics. To that end he deals with objections in such areas as knowledge of truth, morality, the uniqueness of Christ, and the hope of those whoíve never heard the Gospel.

In this article, Iíll pull out a few of these objections and give brief answers, some from Copan, and some of my own.

Before doing that, however, I need to make an important point. If non-believers are doing nothing more than sloganeering by hurling objections that they really donít understand, rattling off memorized answers that we donít understand, Christians can be guilty of the same behavior of our opponents. Even though the objections might sound recorded, our answers neednít. Thus, I strongly suggest that you get a copy of Copanís book or obtain some other books on apologetics which will fill in the gaps left by our discussion.

Letís begin with a brief look at the issue of relativism and what it means for discussions about Christianity.

Relativism shows itself primarily in matters of truth and morality. When we say that truth is relative, we mean that it differs according to the times, or to particular circumstances, or to differing tastes and interests. It is the denial that objective truth exists; that is, truth that applies to all people and for all time. Now, most people will probably agree that there is truth in matters of scientific fact, but with respect to religion and morality, each person is said to have his or her own truth. Such things are matters of opinion at best, and are true only relative to particular individuals.

The implications of this are enormous. Evangelism, or the effort to persuade people to believe that the Gospel is true, is prohibited.{1} The claim to have the truth about a personís relationship with God is considered arrogant or elitist. Tolerance becomes the "cardinal virtue."{2} The rule seems to be this: Follow your own heart, and donít interfere with anyone following his or hers.

These are problems which relativism produces in dealing with others. But what about our own Christianity? If truth isnít fixed, maybe I should just drop all this Christian business when it becomes inconvenient.

Relativism with Respect to Knowledge
Letís consider the objection represented in the title of Copanís book: that is, "Well, that may be true for you, but itís not for me." Here the non-believer is essentially saying that itís okay for you to adopt Christianity if you choose, that it can be your truth. But as far as heís concerned, he has not chosen to believe it, for whatever reasons, so it isnít true for him.

This objection would make better sense if the critic said, "Christianity is meaningful for you, but it isnít for me." Or, "Christianity might work for you, but it doesnít for me." These are reasonable objections and invite serious discussion about the meaning of Christ for every individual and how Christianity "works" in our lives. But the objection voiced is that Christianity is true for some people, but not for others. How can that be? Truth is that which is real or statements about what is really the case. "True for you, but not for me" can only be a valid idea if truth is relative to persons, times, circumstances, or places.

The Christian should question the person about this. Does he believe that truth is relative? If so, then heís actually undercutting his own claims. You see, the statement, "It may be true for you, but itís not for me," becomes relative as well. No statement the person makes can be considered a fixed truth that everyone, even the relativist, should believe. So, our first response might be to point out that, based upon his own relativistic views, anything he says is relative; its truth-status might change tomorrow. So thereís no reason for anyone to take it seriously.{3}

On a deeper level we can point out that if thereís no objective fixed truth, all meaningful conversation will grind to a halt. If nothing a person says can be taken as true or false in the normal sense, the listener wonít know if the speaker really means what he says. What would be the value, for example, of reading the cautions on a bottle of pills if the meaning and truth of the words arenít set? Trying to communicate ideas when truth and meaning fluctuate like the stock market is like trying to nail Jell-O to a wall. Thereís no way to get hold of any idea with which to agree or disagree.

The non-believer might object that not all matters are relative, only matters of religion and morality. However, the burden is on the relativist to prove that matters of religion and morality are relative, for it isnít obvious that this is so. Why should these matters be treated differently with respect to truth than others? The fact that one canít debate morality on the basis of evidences as one would, say, a scientific issue doesnít mean that the truth about it canít be known. More important, however, is the fact that Christianity in particular is tied very tightly to historical events which are matters of fact.

Christianity canít be true for one person but not for another. Either it is true and all should believe or it isnít and it should be discarded.

(See Religious Pluralism and Section on Atheism)

Moral Relativism
Letís turn our attention to objections regarding morality. One objection we hear is similar to one weíve already discussed about truth. Non-believers will say, "Your values might be right for you, but they arenít for me."{4}

First, we need to understand the historic Christian view of morality. According to Scripture, morals are grounded in God. As God is unchanging, so also is His morality. As Paul Copan notes, such morals are discovered, not invented.{5} They are objective; they do not come from within you or me, but are true completely apart from us.

Having abandoned God as the standard for morality and replaced Him with ourselves, some say there is no objective morality. When told that a certain individual believed that morality is a sham, Samuel Johnson responded, "Why sir, if he really believes there is no distinction between virtue and vice, let us count our spoons before he leaves."{6} Johnsonís quip doesnít prove that morals are objective, but it indicates how weíll have to live if they arenít. If matters of morality are relative, how can we trust anything another person says about moral issues? For example, if a person says that you can trust him to hold your money for you because he is honest, how do you know whether what he means by "honest" is what you mean by it? And how can you be sure he wonít decide once he has your money that honesty isnít such a good policy after all? Such a situation would be "existentially (or practically) unworkable."{7}

Paul Copan argues that we know intuitively that some things are wrong for everyone. Ask the non-believer if torture, slave labor, and rape are okay for some people. Ask him if there is a moral distinction between the labors of the late Mother Teresa and Adolph Hitler. Or press him even further and ask how he would respond if he were arrested and beaten for no reason, or if someone pounded his car with a sledgehammer.{8} Would he feel better knowing that the perpetrators found personal fulfillment in such activities? Or would he cry "Unfair!"?

Some non-believers are willing to concede that within a given society there must be moral standards in order for people to live together in peace. However, theyíll say, differences between cultures are legitimate. Thus, theyíll complain, "Who are you to say another cultureís values are wrong?"{9} One culture has no right to force its morality on another.

But is it true that moral standards are culturally relative? Or perhaps the better question should be, Is it really likely that the non-believer believes this himself? You might recall the Womenís Conference in Beijing several years ago. Representatives from all over the world gathered to plan strategies for gaining rights for women who were being oppressed. Could a cultural relativist support such a conference? Itís hard to see how. Cultural relativism leaves a society with its hands tied in the face of atrocities committed by people of other cultures. But as we have noted before, we know intuitively that some things are wrong, not just for me or my culture but for all peoples and all cultures. To take a firm stand against the immoral acts of individuals or cultures one needs the foundation of moral absolutes.

Religious Pluralism
Christians today, especially on college campuses, are free to believe as they please and practice their Christianity as they wish . . . as long as they arenít foolish enough to actually say out loud that they believe that Jesus is the only way to God. Nothing brings on the wrath of non-believers and invites insults and name- calling like claims for the exclusivity of Christ.

Religious pluralism is in vogue today. Many people believe either that religions are truly different but equally valid since no one really knows the truth about ultimate realities. Others believe that the adherents of at least all the major religions are really worshipping the same "Higher Being;" they just call him (or it) by different names. Religions are superficially different, they believe, but essentially the same.

Letís look at a couple of objections stemming from a pluralistic mindset.

One objection is that "Christianity is arrogant and imperialistic"{10} for presenting itself as the only way. Of course, Christians can act in an arrogant and imperialistic manner, and in such cases they deserve to be called down. But this objection often arises simply as a response to the claim of exclusivity regardless of the Christianís manner. The only way this claim could be arrogant, however, is if there are indeed competing religions or philosophies which are equally valid. So, to make a valid point, the critic needs to prove that Christianity isnít what it claims to be.

See Christian Exclusivism.. Explained and Defined

As Copan notes, it can just as easily be the critic who is arrogant. Pluralists who reinterpret religious beliefs to suit their pluralism are in effect telling Christians, Muslims, Hindus, etc., what it is they really believe. Like the king of Benares who knows that the blind men are really touching an elephant when they think they are touching a wall or a rope or something else, the pluralist believes he or she knows what all the adherents of the major world religions donít. The pluralist must have a view of truth that others donít. That is arrogance.{11}

Youíve probably heard this objection to the exclusive claims of Christ: "If you grew up in India, youíd be a Hindu."{12} The assertion is that we only believe what we do because thatís the way we were brought up. This argument commits what is called the genetic fallacy. It tries to explain away a belief or idea based upon its source. But as Copan says, "What if we tell a Marxist or a conservative Republican that if he had been raised in Nazi Germany, he would have belonged to the Hitler Youth? He will probably agree but ask what your point is."{13} The same argument, in fact, could be turned back on the pluralist to explain his belief in pluralism! Copan quotes Alvin Plantinga who says, "Pluralism isnít and hasnít been widely popular in the world at large; if the pluralist had been born in Madagascar, or medieval France, he probably wouldnít have been a pluralist. Does it follow that he shouldnít be a pluralist. . . ?"{14} The pluralist, in todayís relativistic climate, is just as apt to be going along with the beliefs of his culture. So why should we believe him?

The Uniqueness of Christ
The idea that Jesus is the only way to God has always been a stumbling block for non-Christians. Letís consider two specific objections stemming from this claim.

Even people who have made no commitment to Christ as Lord hold Him in very high regard. Jesus is usually at or near the top of lists of the greatest people who ever lived. But as odd as it seems, people find a way to categorize Jesus so that they can regard Him as one of the greatest humans ever to have lived while rejecting His central teachings! Thus, one way to deflect the Christian message isnít so much an outright rejection of the faith as it is a reduction of it. Thus, a slogan often heard is "Jesus is just like any other great religious leader."{15}

One has to wonder, however, how a man can be considered only a great religious teacher (or to have a high level of "God- consciousness", as some say) who made the kinds of claims Jesus did, or who did the works that He did. Consider the claims He made for Himself: that He could forgive sins, that He would judge the world, that He and the Father are one. None of the other great religious teachers made such claims. Furthermore, none of the others rose from the dead to give credence to what He taught. See Section on The Resurrection

Comparing Jesus With Other Religious Leaders... Why Jesus Is Without Equal
The claim to authority made by the founders of most religions, is generally based on visions they claim to have had, and/or their own experiences or wisdom. However, anyone can claim to be divine, be divinely inspired, or have mystical visions or experiences. Additionally, a charismatic or powerful personality, wisdom, humility, compassion, written or spoken eloquence, or even righteousness, is no proof of Divine inspiration. It seems within the bounds of common sense that if God were to send a messenger/savior to mankind, He would have at least given us some way to distinguish the true messenger from the false (and potentially dangerous) one. And, so He did. In fact Godís method was pretty foolproof... He simply told us about the Messiah beforehand. In fact, although many details of the Messiah's birth, life and death were recorded centuries before Christís birth, Daniel specified EXACTLY when He would appear.

A favorite objection to arguments for the deity of Christ is that Jesus never said, "I am God".{16} But does the fact that there is no record of Him saying those exact words mean that He didnít see Himself as such?

What reasons do we have for believing Jesus was divine? Here are a few.{17} He claimed to have a unique relationship to the Father (John 20:17). He accepted the title "The Christ, the Son of the Blessed One" (Mark 14:61-62). He identified Himself with the Son of Man in Danielís prophecies who was understood to be the Messiah, the special one sent from God (Matt. 26:64, Dan. 7:13). He spoke on His own authority as though Godís commands were His own (Mark 1:27). He claimed to forgive sins which is something only God can do (Mark 2:1-12). He called for devotion to Himself, not just to God (Matt. 10:34-39). He identified Himself with the "I Am" of the Old Testament (John 8:57-59). As Copan notes, "Jesus didnít need to explicitly assert his divinity because his words and deeds and self- understanding assumed his divine status."{18}

If this is so, why didnít Jesus plainly say, "I am God"? There are several possible reasons. First, He came to minister to the Jews first. Being so strongly monotheistic, they would have killed Jesus the first time He referred to Himself as God. Second, "God" is a term mostly reserved for the Father. It serves to highlight His authority even over the second Person of the Trinity. See Was God a Trinity? Third, Jesusí humanity was just as important as His deity. To refer to Himself as God would have caused His deity to overshadow His humanity. Remember that the Incarnation was a new and strange thing. It was something that most people had to be eased into.

See The Deity of Jesus Christ. Was He Lord, Liar, Or Lunatic?


Although Christians canít be expected to have satisfactory answers to all the possible objections people can throw our way, with a little study we can learn some sound responses to some of the clichťd objections of our day. Phrases little understood and tossed out in a knee-jerk fashion can still have a profound influence upon us. We need to recognize them and defuse them.

If you still think youíd like more ammunition, get a copy of Paul Copanís book. Youíll be glad you did.

1) Paul Copan, "True For You, But Not For Me": Deflating the Slogans That Leave Christians Speechless (Minneapolis: Bethany House, 1998), 21.

2) Ibid., 21.

3) Ibid., 24.

4) Ibid., 44.

5) Ibid., 46.

6) Ibid.

7) Ibid.

8) Ibid., 47.

9) Ibid., 48.

10) Ibid., 78.

11) Ibid., 80.

12) Ibid., 82.

13) Ibid., 83.

14) Ibid.

15) Ibid., 107-09.

16) Ibid., 115.

17) Ibid., 115-118.

18) Ibid., 119.

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